Why Men Lose Interest In Sex
lorna darden, Avon Sales Representative
There is nothing more hurtful than to think that your partner does not want to touch you. At first things were ok; having sex when you wanted to was no problem. Now all of a sudden when you want to have sex, he always turns you down. The first thing you think is that he is having an affair. That could be the case.
Some men that don't want sex all the time could have a problem I mean down there, you know with the manhood. They could be suffering from ED (Erectile Dysfunction) it is reported that the reason why some men do not have sex is because 30% of men suffer from this condition. Depression can play a big role in the lack of sex because being depressed can lower means libido.
Ladies you are not going to like this but 20% reported that the reason they do not have sex with their partner anymore is because they are having an affair. 44% say they are just too tired to have sex and 68% say that their partner is not adventurous enough in the bedroom. There is no passion for those of you who think that this is the reason why your partner does not want to have sex. Get rid of the bedroom boredom explore more with sex and spice it up!
Not knowing why your spouse isn't interest in you anymore can be very frustrating - it can make you feel insecure, unattractive, unwanted, unloved and neglected. 28% of men say that they don't know why they are not interested in intercourse with their partner and 66% women don't know why their men are not interested either. This shows lack of communication, How are you going to know what is wrong if you do not talk about it?
Men are always portrayed to be the ones that are sex maniacs they just can't get enough of it but, surprising when it comes to lack of sex in a relationship now it is because the men are not giving it up.
Weight gain can also be the issue 38% of men say that they are not attracted to their spouse anymore because the spouse weight was a problem. 20 million couples are in a sexless relationship, lack of communication and boredom in the bedroom is the problem. If you want that passion back discuss each others issues, get to the source of the problem; hopefully the issue is not an affair.
Counseling can be of help to if you and your partner feel that will fix things. Having sex is not the only way of being intimate with your lover - talking to each other trying to figure out each others needs can lead to a long passionate relationship in and out of the bedroom.