Dare to be YOU!
Introduction to Brandlady.com
As women we need to start taking personal responsibility for our failures in life.
When I say take personal responsibility for our lives as women, all I mean is that if we find ourselves in the same old negative situations over and over again, that we need to step back and look at what the situation really is. We need to realize what things that we are doing, that would allow us to keep doing what we do.
For example, for me I know I was always allowing myself to stay in negative and destructive relationships with men that were no good for me. I would attract these types and instead of me letting them go, I didn't want to be alone and by myself. I would allow them to treat me in a negative way. I had noticed the same situation would go on from emotional to verbal abuse. It would be the same situation but different man. I just didn't get it.
I would get so angry and resentful. I would fall into deep depression because I didn't know how to handle the situation. I would let other negative women that I thought were my friends to influence me the wrong way. My life was a mess. It was a emotional roller coaster that would not stop unless I stopped it.
I started to take the necessary steps to recover and it was not easy. I started reading self-help books about spirituality, self-esteem, relationship books by men and writing in my journal. You name it and I did it. I received guidaince from life coaches. What I did is that I started looking at my issues from my child hood and to my adult hood and started to look at what I was doing.
You have the power to change your life and how people view you and treat you. You can write the script of your life. No one else can do that for you.
Taking responsibility for your own life is not an easy thing. Don't get me wrong if someone has truly did you wrong they are suppose to acknowledge and take responsibility for their actions as well. We all know most of the time people like to do the reverse psychology on you and blame you for everything, because when they came into your world they knew you were hurting from low self esteem and no self worth.
So the next time someone comes into your life does something negative to you just step back and look at the situation for what it really is. I have seen people, including myself go into emotional disasters from bad relationshps or issues from work or their career or business is not taking off. Life is hard and full of obstacles and we as women just have stay in control as much as possible and to not let any unecessary negative people or negative situations get in the way and knock us off our paths.